
Books from Dr. Jenn
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From Madness to Mindfulness: Reinventing Sex for Women
From Madness to Mindfulness sets out to help women empower themselves, and future generations of young women, to transition out of a state of "sexual madness" and into a state of sexual mindfulness.
Dr. Jenn compassionately guides women through the process of assessing levels of “mis-education” and negative messaging in regard to relationships, communication, sex, passion, desire, and body image and then integrating mindfulness practices to overcome each woman's own version of this “madness.”
Replete with personal stories and a wide array of client accounts, along with guided questions, action items, and tips to create a personal Reinventing Sex plan, Dr. Jenn guides each woman to become a thriving sexual being on her own terms.
(Published by Cleis Press - See Reviews Below)
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Ears Wide Open: Generous Listening in Today's Distracted Relationships
Ears Wide Open is a heartfelt, practical guide to one of the most powerful and overlooked relationship skills we have: the ability to truly listen. Not just hear, not just wait for our turn to speak—but to listen generously. This book invites readers into the art of listening with curiosity, warmth, and presence, whether with a partner, child, friend, colleague, or forum mate. Drawing from Dr. Jenn’s decades of work as a sociologist and intimacy coach, she break down how we can move beyond reactive communication patterns and step into deeper connection by tuning into what’s being said, what’s not being said, and how it’s all landing in our bodies.
This isn’t about becoming a perfect listener. It’s about becoming a more human one. Through real stories, self-reflection prompts, and practical tools, Ears Wide Open guides you to listen with fewer assumptions, more compassion, and a willingness to be changed by what you hear. Whether you're navigating hard conversations, longing for more closeness, or simply tired of being misunderstood, this book offers a roadmap back to presence—and to the kind of listening that can transform your relationships from the inside out.
“Gunsaullus’s mindfulness practices and analysis will appeal to any woman interested in practical approaches for maintaining emotional and sexual health, as well as to readers confronting and dealing with shame.”
— Publisher’s Weekly
“I don’t know a woman who wouldn’t identify with Jenn's story or benefit from her process. I know this book will not only help me, but help others begin their journey on a more sexually mindful path.”
— Dr. Emily Morse, Host of Sex with Emily on SiriusXM Radio Sho and MasterClass expert
“I was immediately hooked! As I was reading, I kept thinking to myself that I really want my daughters to read this (age 19 and 22) and my step-daughter to read this as well (age 19). So, I came home and bought 3 more. I can't wait to give them to the girls and they too can start the healing and growing process.
— Amazon Reviewer
“Educational and empowering. Gunsaullus’ new book challenges readers to think differently about women and sex, and provides a roadmap to their authentic sexual selves.”
— Dr. Justin Lehmiller, The Kinsey Institute researcher
“Dr. Jenn does a masterful job of defining the components of mindfulness; weaving meaningful scenarios from her own life story, with pertinent client vignettes – and applying her own philosophy and recommendations to all aspects of the female sexual narrative. I find each chapter a vital tool for reflection – to enhance one’s own awareness, express our truths, and ultimately transform our experience of relationship.”
— Debra Wickman, MD, FACOG, NCMP, CSC, Gynecologist